First and foremost - ADULTS ONLY. Those under 18 need to move along.
I'm just a mid 30's guy, who fantasies about his wife having sex with another man, usually of the African American persuasion. Why do I do this? I have no clue. I'm confident, smart, love my wife's body, love to have sex with her, and I’m fairly well endowed myself.
Deep down I know it has something to do with her being in control and possibly humiliating me a bit in the process. I don’t think I’m bi because I’m not attracted to men but I have wondered. She has been aware of my fantasies for a few years and will often go along with it. She frequently talks about having sex, with a black man, while we have sex. Will she ever want to actually do it? Doubtful.